Friday, November 5, 2010

She's Here



She is finally here!
5 lbs 8 oz. 18 1/2 inches

Ella MeKell Petersen

Gregg decided...(okay not really decided it was decided for him) to go out of town for a whole week roughly 2 weeks before I usually go into labor. At the time he booked the business trip we both thought it was totally fine. However, when things got closer we were both a little nervous. I was down right mad! I didn't want him to go, I was so nervous for him to leave. I thought for sure I would go into labor. With me having cesarean sections if I have the slightest bit of labor they usually take the baby. This would be my 4th c-section and I was certain I would go into labor when he was gone.
It was a Monday to Friday trip. By Thursday night I was sure I was having labor pains. I was so scared. I called Gregg at 1am on Friday morning telling him I was in labor and I was scared I didn't know what to do. I was 35 1/2 weeks along (usually have my babies at 37 weeks). Gregg was nervous as well. He asked if I wanted him to try to come home. I didn't want to force the issue as I was nervous it was a false alarm.....what to do. I waited until he got home on Friday night.
We went to labor and delivery and were sent home after monitoring us for roughly 3 hours. They hydrated me and said take it easy. Then on the following Monday I was in labor again. Off to Labor and delivery again. This time they had to give me two shots to stop the labor. They felt I needed to stay pregnant as long as I could. I was a little embarrassed and frankly ticked off. You would think after 4 babies I would know when I was in labor and when I was in labor the baby was going to come....why not let it happen? So Gregg sent me to bed and I was to take it easy.
The labor stopped with the shots and I was not going to do much that week. By Thursday night Gregg had worked his little toosh off and finished the baby's room. We were ready to move in the furniture. I was not going to help...much. But by 11pm I wanted to go to bed and decided I would help him put the crib together. Then when we got the layette in (ohh I love my layette) I just had to get the dresser in and call it good. But it was 12am and we didn't have anyone to help Gregg move in the dresser. So what the heck I helped. It wasn't that heavy, or so I thought.

We moved it in and sat and looked at all the hard work (and ridiculous amount of money) we put into the room and just smiled. It was done. She could come now any time and I would be okay. I wouldn't be as stressed and I could get some sleep knowing my little baby would have somewhere to go. I could get my house back in order......um yeah!
Well we went to be around 1am by 3am I was in LABOR!!! It came on so hard and strong I don't remember being in labor that strong since Jaxon 10 years ago....my only regular delivery. I got in the tub to relax and try to make it stop. It relaxed a bit. By 5am I could no longer sleep I was in so much pain. I got in the shower to try to make it stop. No luck there.
I started to do my hair and get a bag together because for sure this was the one. I started timing the contractions.....5 minutes, 3 minutes, 2 minutes....OH MY GOSH! I have to get the kids to school before we go to the hospital, what am I going to do with Zeke. I know this is for sure the one. So much pain. Such hard contractions. I lay on the bed as Gregg frantically gets the boys ready (ready used loosely in this sentence) for school. HURRY GREGG HURRY.....
We dropped off the boys and took Zeke with us. Gregg's sweet parents were kind enough to come and pick him up from the hospital.
By the time we got to the hospital I was back to 6 minutes apart....what the heck is going on here? I questioned Gregg should I go in or not. After being sent home 2 times you start to question whether you are crazy or not. Gregg said I can drop you off. I said no I will walk. Park far away and I will see when we get to the doors what is going on. By the time we got to the doors they were back hard and strong.
We walked in at 8:30am. I was in my room and on monitors at 9am. By 9:30 they had bumped two other surgeries and moved me in....wwwheew! I do know what labor is. This is the last labor I will know and the last labor I will have to worry about. But for goodness sake could you please NOT try to put in an IV when I am having a contraction???? PLEASE!
Then I walked back to the OR. Walk? yes, I had to walk. Come on I am in serious pain here. No pain relief given yet!
They gave me the spinal and AAAHHHHH! relief!
Gregg in his true form........I had been complaining of being cold. As soon as they gave me the spinal it was as if a warm blanket was inserted into my veins. All comfy and kosy warm. Yet I was buck naked! Laying on the operating table. Wide open for both of the doctors to see and the three nurses and anesthesiologist who just happened to be staring at my nakedness.....along with Gregg. when Gregg bursts out, 'Carrie are you still cold now?' 'No' I replied. 'Well your buck naked for everyone'.....um, Thanks Gregg.....

She came and oh how small she was. So sweet. She must have been pushed up against my pelvis for some time because her little mouth was just as blue and bruised as can be. Looked like she wasn't breathing.

Gregg bathed her and she was ours! So glad she came to us!

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Huge congratulations! So exciting.

jenn said...

Congrats. Congrats. Congrats! She's so beautiful. And so tiny! I'm so happy for you to have a girl. They bring such sweetness to your home. Enjoy every minute!

Stephanie said...

Congratulations!! What a perfect little bundle for a perfect little family! So excited for you!!